Mom have crush on her teenage son's best friend

 A mum has been slammed for admitting she has a crush on her 18-yr-antique son's first-rate pal.

The 39-year-antique woman defined how she does not need a protracted-term courting at this factor in her lifestyles, but wouldn't mind romantic companionship.

at the same time as she does not need to act on her weigh down knowing it'd "harm" her son, she is struggling to prevent or maybe hide her emotions for him.

Taking to the TrueOffMyChest thread on Reddit, she stated: "I don't want to get with him due to the fact I recognize this will hurt my son's emotions.

"I consider he'd get bullied if other men his age discovered out approximately this - and the mummy jokes might harass him 24/7. but this guy is right looking and has loads of emotional intelligence. I experience speaking to him. he is been wanting me on account that he become 19, he is 23 now."

She explained how she doesn't have the energy to search for "the only" at the moment, and insisted she is glad being unmarried but would not mind having some fun.

"I know someone goes to mention ''cross discover a man your age' but the component is, i'm now not looking for a dating a good way to ultimate forever," she brought.

"i am satisfied if I find the proper one however the truth that i've a son approach that i have my share of unconditional love, a accomplice would just be an advantage.

"i am no longer clearly placing all my power into attempting to find the right one, so if I occur to fall for a more youthful man, i would provide it a try and no longer have unrealistic expectancies.

"but the reality that he is my son's pal approach my son might go through if he determined out his buddy is having sex together with his mother regularly.

"i hope I won't turn out to be sharing my mattress with him. If I wasn't conflicted, i might just have intercourse with the guy."

at the same time as most users strongly warned her against acting on her overwhelm, others spoke about how this will 'spoil' her son's life.

One person said: "Your son comes first - or ought to come first. you're proper to your assessment that this will hurt him.

"if you saved it secret, you may avoid that, but how are you ever going to do that?

"can you assure that your weigh down will take it nicely, if things ever wreck apart?

"that he is by no means going to drunkenly screen his secret to every person? that you might not be caught in flagrant?

"The heart needs, what the coronary heart wishes... however the reality of the scenario makes it just a genuinely terrible concept."